Waking up every morning to the realisation of being single can be lonely and tiring sometimes, but there are a lot of things that can be achieved within that time. More so, such time is for renewing your mind and preparing it to attract exactly what you want.
We are products of our thoughts and attract such.
Here are 7 romantic, mature, free and single ideas to make the moment count:
1. LOVE YOURSELF
It all begins here.
I once watched a young man look into the mirror for about 5minutes appreciating himself and showering himself praises and thanking God for his great look and body.
It’s time to stop looking forward to approval from others. It might seem awkward or obsessive at the onset but it works.
Appreciate yourself, take this special opportunity to show yourself the love you intend to show others and you will attract the person that will treat you right and not make you feel less of yourself.
Having a relationship with you comes first, remember!
2. BE HAPPY
Give yourself the chance to be happy. It doesn’t happen overnight, as you might be used to someone else making you happy. There will be times when the negative thoughts just keep rolling in and billions of bad reasons why you shouldn’t be single. Spare yourself the thought and enjoy the moment, you won’t be single forever.
Take a walk, go on a date with yourself, buy yourself that shoe or dress, cook yourself a meal, you totally deserve it!
3. DO NEW THINGS
There’s no better time to study something new than this time. Find what you are passionate about and pursue it. Nobody will stop you except yourself and you don’t need to consider what any other person wants in their partner; on the other hand, the partner that loves what you do will find you!
4. NEW PEOPLE
You can make good use of friends at this time. Meet new people, make new friends, expand your world and horizon…you don’t know where Mr/Miss Right can be. Asides from the fact that you would want a relationship, your friends will keep you from being lonely and depressed.
5. PERFECT BODYLINE
You can get the perfect bodyline at this time by exercising. Give yourself the opportunity of having that shape you desire so much. The endorphin release during your routine will keep you afloat and happy. You can also join a sport of choice.
6. RECONNECT TO YOUR MIND
As said earlier, our thoughts are vital, they produce us. It’s time to listen to that inner voice, reconnect to your mind and renew your thoughts. Learn to talk to yourself, take your own advice and renew the air of positivity around you.
7. GRATITUDE; JUST BE GRATEFUL
Be thankful for what you have, what you are and what you have been able to achieve. This will bring you more happiness and enough anxiety to work towards the ones you haven’t achieved.
Do these things and you are sure to be the better for it.